Charlene Choi: "Don't plan for the present, don't be reluctant to let go of the past, don't worry about the future."
8/04/2010 04:54:00 PM
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All by herself as a result of her Twins partner's divisive photos, having her love life stripped bare and exposed to the world. In recent years, Ah Sa Charleen Choi has gone through many experiences, whatever is capable of being endured, she has endured it. The problem is, feelings and emotions do not have human attributes, they won't stop when they think you've endured enough. Previously, the passing away of her maternal grandfather was yet another test for Ah Sa, to test if she has the ability to endure.
I believe..
How to face it? There are 18 words that are enough for everyone to use in their lifetime. "Don't plan for the present, don't be reluctant to let go of the past, don't worry about the future." This is the kind of approach her Buddhist grandfather has left for her, leaving happiness and ease everywhere. "Perhaps everything is up to fate, the start and end of every matter is dictated, relationships I will be even more unlikely to rush. I have confidence that the future will be happy and blessed." Having a princess who falls ill, but having the princess style of a happy ending, if the princess has brought on her sickness herself, then you can bring on your own princess style ending, depending on whether you have an open mind.
"I'm Not Avoiding Blame"
"Many things have happened these past few years, relationships have been dealt with, in my family a close relative has passed away, each event has changed me to some extent. During this time period, I only ask for myself to not think too much. Fortunately I am still optimistic. Whenever I think about how things I most don't want people to know have all been made public, what else does it matter? With this type of thinking, there's a more relaxed happiness, have to know that hiding a secret is very exhausting, but everything is an experience, something to learn. When a matter is exposed to the light of day, previously having to explain for the situation and feel strained, but I am sure that I have never regretted doing anything. When responsibility needs to be taken for a matter, I will face it with a smile, because I am not avoiding blame. Regarding the way I look at relationships, up until now I still believe in letting nature take its course. Before I had too many ideas, making situations complicated. Now I have to go back to what's natural, back to normal, the simpler the better. When will it start? Just leave it to fate, the start and end of every matter is dictated, relationships I will be even more unlikely to rush. I have confidence that the future will be happy and blessed."
No need to heal
"After going through this experience, some people have asked me if I need some time to heal. Actually it was a decision made by the two of us after careful consideration, there was no who owed who, and also no one was hurt. Healing is not necessary, instead what's true is that there needs to be time for things to settle, and there also needs to be time to learn to let go. My grandfather who just passed away was a Buddhist individual. When he was alive, he never forced me to listen to Buddhism, but the way he handled matters often influence me. For example, his stomach wasn't well but he still ate peanuts like he did before, I urged him to not eat too much, he would say: 'If I eat it my stomach is not well, if I don't eat it my stomach is still not well!' At first glance it may seem like not taking care of your body, but it's a rare open mind, being able to live to be 96 before leaving us, I think this is a flexible attitude being able to be at home wherever one is. Taking this kind of attitude and putting it into my own thinking, I will be able to understand how to let go, and not to hold on. Right now, don't be reluctant to let go of the past, don't worry about the future. Since it is a fixed fact, then don't just agree to sit and accept your fate. I have to continue to work hard, continue to meet new friends. Relationship matters are hard to predict, I'm not in a hurry and I'm not worried."
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